To my First Love

Today my First Love said something different to me.

Maybe he saw me being so exhausted in life this few days..

He is the first and only person in my life that is legit enough for me to prove that 

"HE LOVES ME SINCERELY"

A man that loves me so much that does not want anything back but only for me to find many people that love me, for me to be healthy, for me to be safe, for me to succeed, for me to be loved, for me to be blessed, for me to be there just being me.

I am poor in academic and he is willing to love me.

I am poor in loving him but he is willing to love me.

I am poor physically and emotionally but he is willing to love me.

I am poor in all aspects but he still loves me...

He have Never say me fat (When I'm at my fattest) or ugly (When I had the worst outbreak of my life) 

He is unknowingly so careful with his words, he never felt the need to even faked it or to feel pressure when talking to me.

Because to him "My feelings comes first", he never ever put his feelings upon mine to put me down.

One thing I ever salute to him is,

He is always so proud of me....

So proud that he always say to his friends or colleagues or even relatives

"Everyone This is my Beautiful Lovely Girl, she is my sweetheart"
With me or without me, whenever he mention me, he always Exaggerate how wonderful and awesome I am..

I don't know where to start but everyone is telling me how blessed I am to have him in my life.

He always encourage me, listen to my opinion and even agreeing in where i stand even though when he disagree, he just kept quiet because he know where I am standing to say these opinion.

He is damn f.supportive in whatever fuck I do.. 

Be it having the Worst ex boyfriend I had, or having Poor academic results in my school.

Spending tons of money for my braces or seeing Skin doctor for my Eczema and Acne problem. 

Having all sorts of Dance classes, to Uniform group. 

Going through Muay Thai or Cross fit..

He is always there... 

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Every night when I'm back home without fail with him around, he always walk to the main door, open the gate for me, hug me and give me a welcome home kiss..

He always say "My lovely is girl"
But today... he said "You are the sweetest"
It almost break me down that the person that I've been neglecting is my papa..
He is always so strong, so independent so loving to me.

He is the only one who loves me unconditionally while I am busy loving and caring for others..

He told me,

"What ever mistake you made, you are forgiven and it is forgotten.

Because my Love for you is greater than Hatred"

The same phrase I always use on people I love, he is the only person that said it back to me.

When I never even say anything of that to him before...

I realized...

I've experienced, TRUE LOVE within him..

Media states him as

"Nerves of Steel, heart of Gold"

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I have made a mistake that I have never done before to anyone in my entire life.
I sincerely apologize to whatever that had happen.
I made a mistake because I was not sensitive towards the situation.
And it hurts that person real badly.

Because this One mistake and it causes everything to break apart..

I am and will be fighting to be Strong to overcome this...


After all I've given and taken...

I came home bruised ...

You look at me, smile at me saying "My lovely girl is home", you hugged me and kissed me in the cheeks.
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In the room,

I teared and wondered "Where did your strength of forgiveness and graciousness come from..."

And my Phrase that I always say to all the people that betrayed/Hurt me before and came into my mind...

"If I don't who will, it is LOVE"

Reading back your article and you stated so clearly your point of view.

"Everyone makes mistakes but we need to give them 
the hope that they can correct themselves - So that 
they go back the right path."


I will heal myself even if no one else would give me the chance, for I am solely going to try my best to focus more on you.
Because, you gave me the World when I gave you Hell.



You love me when No one else did.
You love me even if I am rebellious.
You love me even when You know I will leave to have my own family in future.
You love me when you're bruised..
Most importantly,
You love me when I couldn't Love myself.

Thank you for proving to me that I am not alone.

They all say Special Force Commandos are filled with Egos and Pride.
But you are the only one that proves it otherwise..

I hope my future husband, will be like you Daddy...

Someone that can be so forgiving and so gracious, someone that can be so loving and mushy all the time, someone that can be so Proud to have me in their life.

Honestly I could even smell my presence with you even without me staying by your side.

Thank you for not giving up on me.
And always making me the happiest proud little girl that you possibly could.

You made the entire world Envy that I have you in my Life.
For that, I Thank you...

My first
LOVE

My first
HERO

Always my
Daddy

Someone that is so perfect like you.

Someone who is as gracious as you.

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What does customer service means to you?

I have encounter few times of poor customer service experience by online shopping.
And not only only shopping, other physical retail experience.

We customers have to understand the bosses rather than they understanding our situations.
We customers have to understand the manufacturer, rather than they producing it on time for us.
We customers have to understand shipment delays due to production problems.
We as customers have to "APOLOGIZE" because we are scared that we got scammed and our shipment is delayed for more than two months. And we email /whatsapp /call and ask so many questions. Rather than they informing us pre-hand.


One of the things that I cannot stand ...

Companies that does not apologize.

You know, I cannot stand companies not apologizing.

I know some companies does not practice that but it is customer service.

Some companies did not take the effort in explaining to customers about shipments and stuffs, then when things speculate when customers are doubting and emailing the company.

The company did not reply straight to the customer's inquires. 

Things WILL GET WORST.

Recently I have encounter a online shopping situation and I thought to share it with you guys my Humble experience.. (=.=)
I have shopped at her website for YEARS.

But after she have handed over her website to other people to handle it, things get a little unfriendly.

But of course she does still have the rights in the company, is just that, there is a lot of things I have to personally email her for inquires because I could not understand why it takes so long to reach to me.

To be honest, I don't mind not receiving my product after when she went MIA during the beginning of May. Because as a buyer if you want to shop online you have to risk not having your products sent to your doorstep.

But upon seeing her personal Instagram, she is buying all the branded goods etc.

I take it a last shot in getting her attention through her social media.

Well can't blame me for taking the personal social media as my last step.

Not only did she not get back to me every time I ask for inquires about my orders and she tells me that she will get back to me and needed my order number.

She went MIA.

This reply pissed me the MOST..

LOOK,

TRUST ME.
The only way to get things hype and get their attention?
BY THEIR PERSONAL SOCIAL MEDIA.
And this Works.

The two girls commented and replied to me because they are concerned about my issues because they are facing similar problems as me and one of them is dealing with refunds.

And what? You want me to hire FBI and track them down is it???
RIDICULOUS.

As you can see, I have been really patient to such incident.

As a customer, I don't have the need to care about your production problems, you as a seller should have the responsibilities to Inform your customers about the delays and back order issues.

I am not working in your company and therefore I don't know what are your problems you are dealing with unless you work your fingers through punching your keyboards and explain them to me.

And this is how I reply to a company that NEVER APOLOGIZE.

I TEACH THEM and reply to them as if they are WORRYING behind their keyboards.

I have no patience with these type of people.

You are already handling Millions of orders and now I think you have been over confident, your ego and pride rule over your customer service attitude.

Look, lets be real.

I would strongly suggest you to make a note out of the same answers about the same inquires about back orders or shipment delays, and all you have to do is to COPY AND PASTE, SEND to your customer's email.

You need a customer or a junior to teach you how to do that???

Well, take the TIP and LEARN FROM IT.

Ego and pride of being a boss will never get you further than what you have, you might be successful but never the best that you could.

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DISCLAIMER,

I know online shopping is shop at your own risk.
Not only Online website, PHYSICAL STORES do have Poor customer service too.

But trust me, if this happens to you, you would not be so calm about it.
I am here to just share my experience and to alert other online shoppers.
Some companies really misuse their opportunity to take customers for granted.

You know, doing service line no matter what you are going to face these problems, but you got to know what is service etiquette, know your stand and do your best for the customer.

Your customers HAVE THE RIGHTS to know where their shipments is at, are their product a back order, how long is the duration of the shipping etc.

If you are not ready to face such questions ALL THE TIME, then I have to say your type of personality is not suitable for such pressure.

As a company boss, be it online or physical retailing you have to understand that apologizing at certain time especially if your company did not do a good job in maintaining your production and re-ensuring your clients doubt is the KEY to having a Good relationship.

Does not mean you have years of experience, you are expert in any of it.

Lessons are learnt at unexpected time and taught by unexpected people.

Learn to lower down your ego and think about it.

And customers, as long as you are not being unreasonable but act professionally as a customer, you will get what you deserve, and even if you did not, you will leave an impression. 

Tip to buyers
Never to buy something that you are afraid of not getting the product.
Never order things you can't wait.
Never get something that you are afraid of not getting the right legit product.
Never buy something important through online shopping (Wedding gown, medication etc)

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BLOGGER APP

I didnt realise that I can download Blogger app and blog on the go!
Instead of having to sync the pictures in my laptop and post it up, I can do it effortlessly now!

Just.. I cnt adjust my fonts, size of fonts etc etc.. its pretty much like Dayre (abbie) system.

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My heart Cnt color it red , place it centre nor place it below as the end of the blog post...

BOUFESG

Finally I came to try Boufe.

I came over because one of my favorite blogger of all time, is rachell. And she works here!
Aint sure is she one of the partners, but still ;) I am going to TRY IT OUT.

The place is super ulu and hard to go unless you've a car or vehicle to drive you in.

And because it is super Ulu,
I really hope the food don't disappoint me, like really really hope it wouldn't.

I came around 8.45pm, as their last order is 9pm.

Late dinner it is!

The atmosphere is super quiet and relaxing.

FOOD

Skinny and his sister's drink, both trying to say their drink stands out more in the picture,

what do you think?

Yellow or green matches well?!

MY DINNER ARRIVE.

I MUST SAY THE FOOD IS AMAZING.

Ain't sure is it because I am famished.

But it makes me happy and it makes me crave aglio oli a lot more!

I am a aglio olio addict XD

I cant get my life off MUSHROOMS.

Any one who loves cheese and mushrooms will Love this dish.

Look at their portions of their prawns.

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

Its like oily (in a good way) not too dry..

I HATE it when my aglio olio is SUPER DRY.

I am definitely going back to try out more of their food.
DEFINITELY.

✔ off bucket list

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Achiever's night 2015

This time Skinny accompany to my 2015 Achiever's night.
Where they introduce Chesterfield into Singapore market.

Pretty honored to represent Yew Gee Hup Kee to go for the achievers.

I decided to bring Skinny along is because I wanted him to experience events like this before he go into NS life.
But glad he did enjoyed.

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But first of all our first stop is llaollao

 Mannn, we must totally be given a vvip express queue...

 Our favorite Sanum
2 of our Favorited sauces is either Dark chocolate or the ello~

 A little snack before our dinner event in Ritz Carlton.
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At Rtiz-Carlton

 Which would you guys prefer, with or without spects~
Handsome geek or cheeky him.

DOOR OPEN

 Isn't the napkin cute?!
I love love their varieties of  sauces.
I am in love with balachan, 2nd from the right XD
Can never live without.

I am a pescatarian so some of these food includes land animals and I wouldn't like to enjoy them, so I ask to change all of the land animal foods to vegetarian food :)

And they did, all food are side station plate-ed.

FOOD

My share

 Skinny's share

 Skinny doesn't likes seafood, so he passes them to me.

 This is mine, a vegetarian soup.

As for skinny he have his chicken broth soup~

 I and skinny don't eat squid, so... we eat the veggies and the AMAZING CRISPY FLOUR on the side.

 Fish

Vegetarian proteins for me

and Chicken for skinny

 Both  of us have this veggie.

 And ofcos, my endless flow of MUSHROOMS, that skinny gave me.

YUMMY, NOODLES~

DESSERT!!!

To be honest, their food are so-so.. Compared to mandrain orchard, their food is AWESOME.
But their vegetarian food is a little.
Its like if you want to have quantity, not much quality.
If you want to have quality, not much quantity.

We have a glass of white wine and beer throughout the night, in-house their red wine is not very appealing.

Event ended

 Off we go~

Thank you so much for taking efforts in making me feel great and comfortable.
Giving me your best even though at times pride put us down, but we must always remember to be humble, kind and gracious.



The next day we head over to music run.

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|| VEGAN BURG ||

My Virgin trip to a Vegan fast food restaurant have been a awesome great experience.

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Thank you for bringing me to places to explore, my life can never be so colorful without the positive encouragements from you.

SKINNY
My annoying little devil yet as soft as an angel.

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Back to today's topic...

 YES!

I've break my check-list to one of the rare famous cafe in Singapore!

Even though, vegan restaurant I've been to some in Singapore (will blog up soon) but I've not encounter Fast food vegan, the only fast-food vegan foods that I can think of are Fresh fruits/Veggies.

ORDERING~

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The shrooms burger is really the Sex.

Fried soy petty and shrooms, this flavor that I've ordered (Because I looooove Shrooms) , Its super savory and deliciously crispy.

I ordered broccoli at the side too, because fries are just too common, and I've already reward myself with a fried petty, I wouldn't need any more fries where I can get it anywhere else.

The broccoli is boiled and chill.. Its super fresh and Delicious! 

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 As for the hawaiian terriyaki burger, skinny ordered, is more to the sweeter mild savory side.

I don't have sweet tooth so I don't find it taste nicer than my shrooms burger (HAHAHA)

But I can say, if you love sweet foods, its gonna be really gooooood!

For skinny he have sweeter tooth than me, so he is totally enjoying it.
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NO TIME TO COME DOWN?!
NO WORRIES!

YOU CAN CALL AND ORDER IT NOW!

Without even having the hassle to make trips down!

Isn't that great?! Call now to have your awesome Vegan Burg experience!

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I honestly think, this is definitely a huge challenge for the cafe to maintain it's popularity, or consistent regular customers. Because it is open in the mid of office buildings.

Other than office hours break-time, I don't ever think anyone would walk all the way to eat vegan fast food in regular basis.

I would strongly suggest them to open in school areas, where teens are willing to splurge on fast food, and esp helpful to teens who are en-route to being a vegan or vegetarian students.

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I honestly think the quiet environment is great to have heart to heart session with your friends and love ones.
I have a better conversation with my man that evening, planning out our next few activities in such atmosphere it really "hit on the spot" for us.

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My ankle was hurting while I am on my way to GYM, so...

My man is here to give me sort of weekly massage, every time I've intensive aching during training.

Best man award (For now....) XD

✔ off bucket list

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